Q: The other day my boyfriend and I were hooking up, and he put his fingers inside my vagina. I was really surprised and didn't expect him to do it, but I let him anyway. While he was doing it, it started to hurt, so I told him to stop. Is this normal?
A: What you felt is totally normal! Your boyfriend probably doesn't have a lot of experience and wasn't really sure what to do...which is why it didn't feel very good. Vaginas are sensitive and need to be treated VERY gently. More importantly, though, your boyfriend should not be surprising you like this. If you and your guy want to get more physically intimate that needs to be a mutual decision — not something that he decides on his own. If this is not a step you are comfortable with, let him know. Tell him, "I really like you, but I'm just not ready for this." Chances are he was doing it because he thought that it was what you wanted.
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